How to show your loved ones you care

As we celebrate the Valentine's day, there are so many ways to show how we care for our loved ones.  Not only this day we should show our love for them, but we should do it each and everyday.  ,

During this special day, some people give flowers, cards, chocolates and other gifts. Some go to romantic places to be with their loved ones on this day.  But what is important is to always be grateful that they came along in our lives.

With these, I would like to share to you this e-book  101 Romantic Ideas.  I hope you will spark more flames on your romance.

101 Romantic Ideas

You Cannot Not Choose

Here is a list of some of the non-negotiable choices we must make simply by virtue of being.

* You cannot not choose to have a guide for decision. You are either listening to the Voice for God or of the ego.
* You cannot not decide. Appearing not to choose is a choice.
* You cannot not choose heaven without being in hell. Until you decide for heaven you are in hell.
* You cannot not choose to serve. You serve God or ego in every instant. No exceptions.
* You cannot not choose a Master. Your master is either God or ego.
* You cannot not choose to teach and learn. Your lessons are either of God or the ego.
* You cannot not choose to pray. Your entire life is a prayer. You are either praying from a place of need or want and the underlying belief in separation or you are praying for help and forgiveness for that very belief. In moments of joy, your prayer simply expresses gratitude for the fact of union.
* You cannot not make a decision about judgement. You are either holding on to the perceived right to judge or you are handing judgement over to a higher power.
* You cannot not identify with something. That something will either reflect the laws of God or laws of the world.
* You cannot not be in relationship. You are in relationship with all things, through all time and beyond because you are, so to speak, made of the self-same substance.

Gratitude: How often do you do it?

Often, we are very much indulged in our own problems that we forget there are also things we should be grateful for. Little things that make a big difference in our lives.

I was on a call tonight and the topic was about gratitude. At the end of the call, I found myself in tears while listening to the people sharing their stories and how grateful they are for the things that are happening in their lives. There was one lady who said that she was sitting in her family room and found herself crying with tears of joy while looking at their family picture. She was grateful and blessed to be with her kids everyday and seeing them grow.

And I started to take a look at myself. And I realized I haven't been paying attention to all the things that are happening in my life right now. That I have so much to be grateful for everyday, my circle of friends, the community I am in right now, the success I am achieving and of course my family.

Same Success Advice But Different Impact In Your Life By Patric Chan

Interestingly, a lot of people claim they know how to be rich, yet many of them stay poor.

The thing about these know-it-all people is they are not open to the fact that there could be something missing to their equations. They just don't see that if they keep doing what they are currently doing, they are going to continue to get the same results.

The people who are willing to learn, who are brave enough to explore new territories are the ones who will prosper in the end.

In the 18th century, a group of brave explorers set sail from England, not knowing where they were heading and found the Promised Land - America. Imagine where we will be today (for those living in America) if that group had held on to their beliefs that the world is flat and if you sailed too far, you'd fall off the edge.

We both know that a pilot will learn about what to do when he is flying through storms in flight school. But it is by actually flying through an actual storm is where HE LEARNS.

Want to know something that sets the rich people apart from the rest?

They don't mind going through the same learning process over and over again. Yeah,the boring process. For instance, they make it a point to attend seminars on wealth despite that they're already wealthy because they know that if they can pick up even just one new thing to try out, it will be worth it.

Try this -- the next time you attend a seminar, watch out for those who go to the back of the room to buy the speaker's product at the end of the presentation. If you attend another seminar and he happens to attend too, I bet you'll see the same guy buying again.

Funny thing is, the know-it-alls will say that they already know what will be shared in these seminars and they can't afford to waste their time learning the same thing all over again.

That's true too. I know because I was in their shoes -- I was trying to grow my business but it seemed to be 'stuck'. I KNOW how to fix it and yet I can't change it because my 'sight' is blinded. You see, when you get a solution from a valuable source that you trust, you will see it differently even if it's solution that you already knew.

Put it this way...if you believe in God and suddenly, you met God in person and God gives you the advice to appreciate your life -- I think you'll do it with no questions asked although you already know that you should appreciate your life.

Makes sense?

As we have ascertained earlier, you can't expect to be doing the same thing over and over again and expect to get different results. Something has to change in the whole system in order to break the cycle and get better results.

Therefore if you think that you know everything, if you don't stop being so full of yourself and open up your mind to receive new things, how are you ever going to improve your results? Sounds pretty harsh doesn't it? Well, wake up - that's called reality.


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Patric Chan is an international speaker, author and the founder of The Success Trace Private Membership. Find out what are his other success strategies and get free gifts from Patric

THE OPTIMIST CREED

PROMISE YOURSELF…

To be strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.
To think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature you meet.
To give so much time to improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud word, but in great deeds.
To live in the faith that the whole world is on your side, so long as you are true to the best that is in you.


Originally Publisher in 1912 in a book titled Your Forces and How to Use Them, this famous creed by Christian D. Larson is Worth reading every morning and evening.