Trust your Instinct

I just want to share my experience today.  This is my first time to have encountered this situation.  I have this guy from NY whom I put in one of our company's overview call.  When I called him, his wife answered the phone with a sarcastic tone.  So his wife woke him up and I talked to him.  He said it's okey to talk so I continue. I asked him some questions to see if  we have a fit to work together and with all his answers he was qualified so I decided to put him on that call.   But before I gave him the schedule, he asked me a lot of questions already, so I told him he will learn everything he needs to know about the company on that call.  He said he doesn't want to waste his time listening to people pitching the company.  So I told him, "you know what, I don't wanna waste my time neither.  And if you are not interested I will let you go cause I still have some more people to talk to."  And then after he said the products sounds great so he said he will listen to the call.

So I put him on the call.  I sent him the corporate site because he asked for it and my personal website as well.  I called him right after the call was finished.  Then when I talked to him he said the company sounds great, the products on personal development as well and he was asking me is it true that you can earn 7k in a week? So I said yes it's true, he can earn that amount of money.  And he asked me if I earned 7K last week.  So I told him, "you know what, it's not about me, but it's about you earning the money."  And he keeps on asking me that question in a shouting manner while I was speaking.  I didn't even have time to check his temperature because he was making blah blah blah and after he said, this company is a SCAM and he hang up.  How rude, isn't he?


I can't believe it when I hear people saying bad things about a person they learned he has earned so much money better than what they are having themselves.  There are people who has this "crab mentality" on them.  Like a crab, when they see someone climbing on the top, they try to pull it back down.  They do this  by saying negative things, barking behind their backs.  Why can't we not be happy and follow how this person achieve this kind of success?

What I learned here is to trust my instinct.  When I first talked to this guy and heard his voice half sleeping, I already wrote on my notebook that I will disqualify him plus the fact that I didn't like how his wife sounded on the phone. I am not being judgmental  here, but when you are studying personal development and you talk to somebody for the first time, you will sense his personality by the tone of his voice.  I knew I will disqualify him one way or the other but I keep on talking to him.   From the tone of his voice, I already sensed some negativity in him and a very close-minded person.  And I don't want to work with people like that. 


I've been talking to a number of people everyday. And I just can't understand why, when people are hearing personal development, their blood seems to jump in a very high level, heart pumping so fast with their hands sweating.  People are so afraid to face their inner selves.  We are so afraid to discover the ghost we have created in ourselves that make us hide inside our comfort zone.  And yet, these people desire to have success in their lives.  But how can a person achieve success if he doesn't really know who he is and what is his goal in life?

How to achieve your goals in 2010

What does a New Year mean to you? Have you written your resolutions yet? What do you plan to achieve in 2010? Are you ready to make changes in your life right now?

Most, if not all of us, make New Year’s resolution every year. It is the time when we lay our plans, write our goals and define our dreams. But is it enough to just write them down on a piece of paper and hide it away somewhere without looking at it for the rest of the year?

This year, I would like to challenge everybody to take a look at their lives right now. Reflect on your present situation in life. Where are you at this point in your life? Are you achieving your goals? Are you happy in your current situation, in your job? Are you living an interesting and fun-filled life? Or NOT - but you simply don’t know how to change things around?

Many of us are hesitant to make a change in our lives because we are afraid of making mistakes and experiencing failures. We fear what other people will say if we do not do what they expect of us. I used to share these same views, until I found an opportunity that REALLY changed my life. An opportunity that not only changed the way I thought and responsed to daily lessons in life, but an opportunity that is giving me abundance and freedom.

I would like to share what I’ve been learning on my journey. Here are some steps you can use as a guideline to achieve what you really want in your life.

1. Set your goals - Goals are the driving force behind any achievement. Setting goals is what gets us to what we want and where we want to go. When you set your goals, remember not to focus on where you are right now, but instead focus on what you want to have in your life. Write your goals down on paper and be as specific as possible. Studies have shown that if you write down your dreams and goals, you are MUCH more likely to achieve them.

2. Create a positive affirmation about your goals - Consider writing your goals from the perspective that you have already achieved them. Always carry your goal cards with you and read them to yourself everyday. As you read them, read with emotion. Really feel passionate about the goals you have set. See, smell, feel and sense your goals as you imagine having achieved them..

3. Visualize your goals - Everyday make it a habit to visualize your goal. Visualize that you have already achieved your goals. If your goal is to be back home with your family, visualize that you are already with them. Where are you at this moment, are you in the living room, or dining room or are you at the park with your kids? Is it a sunny day or a rainy day? What are you doing right now? How does it feel to hold them in your arms? How does it feel to hear them laughing and calling you ‘mama’ or ‘papa?’

4. Drive the right vehicle - The definition of vehicle is a conveyance that transports people or objects. What you choose to do for a living is a vehicle which takes you from where you are to where you want to go financially. Does you current financial vehicle have the ability to create substantial income for you? Most jobs limit your potential to create wealth.


So the next step is to choose a financial vehicle that will bring you to your destination, which is abundance. It might be to start a small home-business on the side of a full-time job. But with enough focused effort, this part-time business can eventually replace your full time job. Maybe, at the back of your mind you are saying you don’t have the money to start a business. Remember, whatever you think about, it is going to happen. When you know what you want, and you want it badly enough, you will always find a way to get it. Nothing is impossible in life, you just have to believe.

5. Develop a passion for personal development - Educating yourself is the best way to overcome your fear of pursuing your goals. There are so many ways in which you can develop yourself, such as books on Personal development, training cds and dvd’s, to name just a few. I strongly recommend turning off your radio and television, and replacing those habits with reading books and listening to audios that will teach you to new skills that you do not know. Everything you need for your better future and success has already been written and available. Don’t just read the easy stuff. You might be entertained by it but you will never grow from it.

6. Hang around with success-minded people - As the saying goes, birds of the same feather flock together. I recommend that you choose the people who you want to be with. If you mingle with success-minded people, it is most likely that you will become successful too. Gather the information on how they become successful and apply it to yourself.

7. Gratitude - Always be grateful for everything that you have right now, be it small or big. Make it a habit to pause even for 5 to 10 minutes a day and be thankful for everything.

Remember, all our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them. If you want change in your life, then you have to change.

If you have any comments or inquiries regarding the business opportunity I am offering which can completely turn your life around, you may contact me through loremivillones@gmail.com or visit my website www.better-life.info


I look forward to hearing from you and to helping you to create the life you deserve!